Motherhood is hard. It is beautiful, messy, and hard. I put a lot of pressure on myself to succeed and have found myself wishing I could drop my ambition and be happy with a 1950s existence. But I can’t. So, the next best thing is embrace the madness, and do it unapologetically. Because it is only by normalising things and being honest, that we will make things easier for other women, and ultimately find a better balance.